I’m in the South East like you, andon my 3rd Jeep, and I’ve had both tops. My CJ, had a really bad softie, then bought a hardtop, then sold it, and bought a new soft top, and loved it. Then my JY had a hard top, and I hated it. I bought a TJ a few months ago, and having a soft top was a plus. If I’d found a good one with a hard top I would have sold the hard top and added a soft top.
Down here we have to many days in the “winter” when it goes to 75 during the day and you can drop the top. Also with all the pop up showers in the summer it is nice to be able to put the top up quickly. The only way I’d consider a hard top is if I had a long interstate commute daily.