never really learned to drive
I'm not convinced we actually teach people how to drive anymore.
See above, that should cover most if not all of your points. I'm not giving you shit but...
Based on your diatribe, I'm amazed you've managed to live to the age of 54. Surely you should have been killed in a car accident long ago given none of them had
any of these "driver aids" you preach about, not until you were at least 21. Hell, many vehicles didn't even have ABS at that time. I now this because I'm the same age as you. How did we manage to survive? Maybe because more people were better trained drivers and/or weren't as distracted?
I'm not suggesting some of these systems don't help save lives (though the numbers don't necessarily indicate a direct correlation), but when we introduce systems that essentially attempt to compensate for poor driver knowledge and ability and serve as potential distractions to the act of driving, I'll take issue every time....because you're still putting the life and livelihood of myself and my loved ones at risk if we're driving the same roads. You don't
need a car that brakes for you, indicates when someone is on your left or right, calls for help, etc., etc., what you
need to do is know how to handle your vehicle and pay attention to what's going on in front of, to either side and behind your vehicle at all times. If you can't do that, do everyone else a favor and take a cab or public transportation.
Me, I'd rather do the driving, know my vehicle and how to work on/repair it as well...and whether you do that yourself or not, there's something to be said for being able to do so. I don't need a self driving vehicle, one that brakes for me, one that has an audio system that's powerful enough to loosen fastener on the vehicle (and make my ears bleed), allows the viewing of movies, parks for me or massages and cools my balls.
Note that I didn't mention things like EFI, ABS and SRS. GPS is pretty damn handy (though I don't want it built into my vehicle), but knowing how to navigate with a map is still a good skill to have as a backup. Cell phone in a car? Sure, just do so with a hand's free system and don't forget your primary task is driving. No one's talking about 1903 Fords here and I don't recall ever having to adjust my timing, points or carburetor on any vehicle I've owned more than once unless I was replacing parts. If you had to do it every three months, maybe you didn't do it correctly the first time.