Got my Brake Buddy Stealth installed and went for a test drive.
I wired up all of the lights such that the front turn signals, front running lamps, rear turn signals, rear center high mount stop light, rear brake lights, and rear running lights all function. The reverse lights are also hooked up, mainly as an idiot warning system if someone tries to back it up.
Charge and ground circuits are also hooked up. Brake buddy stealth is hooked up to power, ground, brake controller signal, and breakaway signal.
I upgraded the vacuum pump to a Hella UP30 taken out of a modern Silverado. I have it hooked up to a relay and a vacuum switch. It recovers the vacuum to 24 inHg in about 5 seconds, whereas the original one could only supply maybe 15 inHg and took a very long time to get there.
At the same time I also installed a 7-way RV socket with a 4-flat socket as well. The way this jeep is wired, everything should work both as toad and towing. Technically it is even triple tow capable, as all of the toad wiring is installed upstream of the trailer wiring, with the exclusion of the trailer charge circuit, which is isolated by relay. (The toad charge circuit is protected by a 30 amp fuse.)
For anyone that wants to have the front turn signals, all running lamps, and the CHMSL work as well as the rear lights, simply use a Curt 56196 to split the wires for the signals and brake lights. The split signals can then be spliced into the front turn signal and CHMSL wires. No diodes are needed; backfeeding is a non-issue. With the running lights, simply splice anywhere. Backfeeding is a non-issue on those circuits only.
For the taillights, diodes are required. Since I tapped into Reverse the same way I tapped into the turn/brake lights with diodes, I used a diode on the reverse lights as well; though it's probably not necessary.
For safety chains I am using 5/16" Grade 70 with latch hook clevis ends. The chain has a WLL of 4,700 lbs, meaning it far exceeds the requirements of SAE J684. I upsized to a 3/8" clevis latch hook for the end that connects to the bow shackles, as the 5/16" clevis hook could not fit over the 3/4" bow shackles.