You could replace your mounts to firm them up a bit but i doubt its part of the issue.
The tcase yoke sounds ok from your description.
To be clear you adjusted caster back and forth with no change?
Heres another thing to check- how much play in the splines of the driveshaft slip when you wiggle it sideways? They wear and get sloppy too
Right, no probably not part of the issue even though if driveshaft front and rear are not balanced or they are fighting each other because rear is fine but front isn't, maybe they get into the crazy motion between each other and me able to wiggle the transfercase / trans left to right, probably isn't helping. No up and down, but left to right movement so slightly. Not sure, I don't think I'm using that much force to wiggle it noticibly if that makes sense.
As for the caster, I'm told I should worry more about the pinion and driveshaft angles. When I've had the pinion at 5, and driveshaft at 4, had vibrations... switch it like opposite, I've had vibrations plus wheel shimmy the faster I went so that's not it. Went back to 5 on pinion and 4.5 like it was smooth as butter with 3.73.
One thing I will say, and as I said it in my initial post. I did 80-85 or so on the thruway and you could tell the engine was working, the 33 inch tires were moving, very similar shake if I remember correctly. Obviously, 5.13s and 33s, I'm doing 85 at 65 now. Not surprised. So maybe I'm not having the issue of the harmonic sound, vibration like everyone else is, I'm just having some thing that did it also at 80-85, doing it now since its really 85, at 65. If that makes sense too.
There is no play in the splines, from what I can tell with the boot on. Plenty of weights from factory on that driveshaft, wonder if they had hard time balancing it. Its got like 3 on there, 1 on one end, and 2 on another one.