Everything on the suspension is allowing that great flex... joints on the tie rod, drag link, track bars, control arms, shocks, etc. Wear of those parts in situations like above is not normally a concern. The chief concern is are you using flexible-enough joints/bushings where you should be? For example, that level of flex is fine when you have good flexible control arms that allow for a lot of misalignment but if you're using poorly designed aftermarket control arms with bushings at both ends, which limits how much the arms can move/flex/articulate, it stresses the control arm mounting brackets. Sometimes to the point the brackets can be torn away from where they are welded in place.
Generally speaking the flex being shown above is not usually anything but a good thing. Other than it looks like he needs taller bump stops.