I’m here for you dawg. Your positivity and zest of life is contagious. Your ability to acknowledge life’s simple beauties is infectious. Keep up the good work sir, You’re doing it right!
Thanks man- being with Dad this evening has really given me time to slow down and reflect- I know I don’t know everything or even much, but as I’ve gotten older there are some things that I’ve grown to feel sure about.
- We aren’t here long. Not long enough to be miserable for sure. Why in the world, given one shot, would we not want to make the most of it or mess it up? Constantly correct. Know the target is a genuine smile.
- We are in it together. We need each other. In every way. There is no escaping this. I know some people are hard to like, deal with , etc- we don’t need everyone, but we need the ones we need, and we need to be there for those that need us. We are here to serve others. Most real, enduring satisfaction and wealth comes from that. Drop the vampires and losers.
- I nearly drowned once. My immediate thought when I was on dry land and safe was how beautiful the world was. It was as if I’d never seen it before. I have never let myself forget it. There is a saying - “compared to what we should be we are barely awake” that has always stuck with me - I’ve come to realize it means we need to wake up, look up from the phone, and engage with life- it is happening right now, all the time, all around us. Nothing ever happened in the past or will happen in the future- all happened and will happen only in the present. Save for retirement, but live now. While many are waiting for some magic to be handed to them on a silver platter , flowers bloom, birds sing, the sun rises in splendor, acts of kindness happen and thousands of wonderful moments take place.
- there is no “happy “ plane of existence where people live with pure joy 24/7 - we acclimate- if we were happy all the time happy would become normal and we would have no happy moment to look forward to- it is the sadness we lose that makes joy so special. All that said, we can work at, foster and train ourselves to be helpful, positive, cheerful and optimistic. And don’t kid yourself- those things affect outcomes, and outcomes affect happiness.
- Material things aren’t evil. They are great. “Anyone who says money can’t buy happiness doesn’t know where to shop”- Lovey Howell, Gilligans Island. It is how you go about getting them and how you handle it when you do.
This forum revolves around material objects. And we love it. Some sayings like material things are evil are just ignorant lies. People that say things like that usually don’t have much.
I know I’m getting too philosophical on here and all this needs to go to off topic or be dropped. And I also realize I try to come across as the guy with the great attitude all the time.....And I do want to lift people up. To balance it out , in person, I despise losers, takers, mooches and sorry people who get by by doing less, cheating, lying and stealing (hours at work, property, value in any way ) and am pretty vocal about it . I see people create and live miserable lives that affect their children, their families, other good people and they just blunder on.
When little kids see my jeep and like it, my line is , “hey buddy, that home work you have to do doesn’t get you one - but not going out to play , sitting there and getting that homework done when you don’t really want to....THAT will get you a jeep like this and anything else.”
We are really a country of winners. I hope we never lose that.