Yeah that's the question behind my question: what do I really need to know?
@Irun's link says basically the same thing as you're saying: "[Putting it in the pan] provides you with an accurate temperature reading of the fluid that returns to the transmission after flowing through the cooler. Overall, this mounting location will give you the most accurate average reading of the trans fluid." I get the logic: do you want to know how hot your
transmission is or not?
But other things I'm reading point to the need to know how hot the transmission
fluid is (until temperatures get hot enough to begin directly affecting seals and clutches or turn your TC blue). The logic behind that thinking seems to be: heat is the indirect cause of a damaged transmission; a more direct cause is burnt transmission fluid (which stops lubricating). In other words: are you burning your transmission
fluid?
So if I want to know how hot the seals and clutches in my transmission are then it makes sense to me to put the sender as close to them as possible. But is it more useful to know fluid max temp?
Since I'm already overthinking this I'll also ask: does it really matter if the transmission fluid is super hot if it's only that temperature for a short time (i.e. on its way to the cooler)? My experience burning everyday objects tells me it's a function of time. If it doesn't matter then maybe the prize money should go to the location with the best representation of average temperature.
Maybe if I'm that worried about it I should just install two senders and a switch!