I understand the desired outcome, I'm just not sure how to get there.
The tire patch to pivot around the center point... does that mean neutral backspacing (4" backspacing on 8" wide wheels, 5" backspacing on 10" wheels) or the center of the tire over the balljoint? Or something else entirely? How far off can you be before running into issues?
That's why I'm surprised going to 3.75" of backspacing was recommended when the factory was 5.5". I understand that I had to add width due to the tire size, but would it have been better to widen the axles by 3.5" rather than mess with the backspacing? Or am I completely wrong?
Do some reading on scrub radius. There are pros and cons to both positive and negative, and in general you want as little as possible but it's fairly agreed that it's better to have a little of either one than to have exactly zero. Negative would require wheels like you see on the front of a tractor trailer where it's bulged way out past the tire so that's not really practical...therefore for this discussion it's best just to consider positive.
I suspect the axle width recommendations are based on achieving a track width that keeps the tires out of things you don't want them touching, but are also based on a particular range of wheel backspacing. So a 65" WMS with 4" backspaced wheels would be equivalent to a 67" with 5" backspacing, with the caveat that the 5" backspacing combo will have closer to zero scrub radius and better road manners but 4" tends to be easier to find in the aftermarket.