Oh lord, my stomach is churning. I'm a retired body shop owner and I can't tell you how many times we've seen this sort of situation. To the OP, you're getting some sound advice and some not so sound. Take it someplace bite the bullet and spend the money or you'll be in the same situation the person was in that recently (?) painted it - a mess. You have to get all the "new" paint off or you're wasting your time and money. In a situation like this we would bead blast it, not SAND but blast it using plastic beads. This will not destroy the original base coat/clear coat. Rough the finish and re-paint. The aircraft stripper being suggest is a great product but creates another situation to deal with. Wearing protective gear (gloves, eye protection and respirator) we painted it on using a chip brush. It will remove the clear coat, base coat and the primer/sealer so you're now down to the metal. Unless you use an etching primer before re-painting, you will be able to peel the new paint off with your fingernail. If you decide to prep it yourself, buy a cheap DA (dual action) sander from Harbor Freight to use, do not use a grinder. Bottom line, you're going to spend many, many man hours and several dollars and still ending up with something not much better than you started with. I've seen it time and time again. The old adage of if you can't do it right, don't do it at all could not be truer. Good luck to you whichever way you decide to go.