Take it up with the HOA you agreed to live under. See if it cares about any of that, and then you move. Freedom!![]()
I get what you're saying, and I agree- if you were dumb enough to sign up for a place that has that kind of control, then live with the consequences.
Personally, there are a few things that would disqualify a home from potential purchase. Having an HOA would be number 1 on that list.