Agree with everything you say. But I'd probably go for 1-2" coil spacers(or coils) and longer shocks to get a lil travel and clearance underneath.
@StoneCold 31s and a small lift is a good start.
Then spend time learning about the pros and cons of each mod and combination appropriate for a given tire size. Then decide what compromises work for you. Reading build threads,researching and maybe joining a 4x4 club or other ways to see tjs in action will help.
I’m thinking 1.25” body lift initially and down the road maybe some 1” springs or a spacer.