I am currently in a very similar situation. Haven’t pulled my engine yet, but it does need rebuilding or replacement. We have three well respected engine machine shops in Albuquerque. Shop #1 said they were too busy. The other two shops told me six months minimum before it would be finished.
I decided to go with a reman. I ordered one through Titan and they shipped it out in about 7 days. I am currently waiting on XPO logistics to get it to ABQ. It’s been sitting in El Paso for three days now.
You’re fucking up by not walking in with a 12 pack of PBR’s, walking past the front counter, and putting them in the fridge. Then, patiently waiting for them to smile and ask you what you need. Just sayin!