Yeah I was hoping for a way to tell without waiting to see if, and in which way, I destroyed the gate.
My gate is flush with tub at the latch, but sticking out along the bottom edge. I trimmed the snubber by the amount the gate was above flush and it made zero difference in how the gate landed, so I thought I'd check on some others strategy before I trimmed it down too far. New gasket, so I'll need to remove the snubber to see if that's even what's holding it out, and not the weather strip. The bottom edge doesn't appear bowed at all, but since it's flush up high and not down low its more like it's twisted due to having a gasket along the bottom but not the top.
I also notice the striker looks goofy. As tight as it goes puts the gate flush with tub, and no more. The striker points slightly rearward, which I don't remember being the case on my TJ, and since the latch hits near the end of the striker, it puts the gate looser than it would if the striker was parallel to the back edge of the tub.
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