The easiest way for us to pick up an ignition controlled trigger for the relay that powers up your auxiliary fuse block is to use a quality fuse tap in the instrument cluster power fuse behind the glove box. I wholly dislike cutting into the factory wiring for most reasons since I've seen too many issues when others have done it.
These fuse taps work well. Pay attention to the prongs that go into the fuse block. A lot of them out there are very short and the plastic that is molded around them interferes with how far they are able to be pushed into the fuse slot.
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I don't use the crappy butt connector they have crimped in place but other than that, never a single issue triggering a relay with them.
I drill a hole in the firewall right above the heater core inlet and outlets after checking it from the inside using the dimples to get my bearings. Wire goes straight out to near the battery which is fairly ideal for keeping the relay and fused supply off the battery close to the battery.