Now where's the shot of you (or her) finding a giant mud puddle?
I DJ weddings...did one where the grooms jumped off a bridge into a creek in their tuxes... before the wedding pictures...after the ceremony. Bride was fine with it...some of the parents were steamed... probably because they're going to foot the bill for the tuxes.
I'll be the first to let you know that the 2nd and 3rd time will be better. You'll understand that when the first one fails, and 99% of them do. The other 1% live miserable.