They got it new in 2002, and it probably has not been off road in the last 10 years. She just drives it back and forth to work, and around town. In itself, nothing wrong with that. There's probably tons of TJ owners in that category....
She had the oem top on for most of the recent past, but would fold down the top without removing the windows. As you can imagine, you couldn't see out the windows, and that did a number on the plastic windows. She recently got a new top, but it is the old style Supertop or Smittybilt kind, with the funky bows and the body channels that bolt to the top of the body rails; a header that stays on with a channel that a plastic flap on the material slides into, and the top material is really flimsy.
She had 31x10.50-15 tires on it on the same wheels prior to the 33s, and those looked ok, but these tires...
So basically, she has done nothing to the TJ since buying it new but drive it, put gas in it, do the maintenance needed, and put new tires on periodically, and a different top, albeit a bottom of the line top. And is perfectly happy to drive it exactly that way back and forth to work, and around town. And probably will until it quits running. That's all she wants, you cannot fault her for that.
I don't know how the 33s don't rub, though.