When you lift a TJ, your caster changes as well. This will change how well your steering wheel returns to center, and can make it wander at freeway speeds. Just thinking outloud here, but maybe the combination of caster angle and toe in/out have reached a threshold to initiate DW? With DW, I try to think of it as more than just one thing that is initiating it. I can't remember now, but did you try rotating wheels front to rear yet?