I just saw this post... And while I'm new to TJ's, I am somewhat of a geometry guy. Your arms are near parallel now which puts your instant center in a very unusual spot way out in front of your Jeep. It's traditional to say that you want your instant center close to intersecting the anti-squat line per the attached diagram. Instant center above the line causes the body to rise under acceleration and instant center below the line causes squat under acceleration. For traction, I believe we are looking for instant center at or below the anti-squat line. But the main thing that caught my attention was that with your parallel'ish arms, you are not getting any axle roll during compression which would arc your springs in to alignment and would also rotate your pumpkin away from your gas tank during compression.
Your upper axle mounts need to be raised to get a proper instant center and it will correct a number of other things you have going on. Just my .02, hope it helps.
Not a perfect diagram for our Jeeps, but it gets the point across. Guys that have done a lot more experimenting with Jeeps can hopefully add where our instant center works best. It looks to me that with the flattening of the lowers and the raising of the rears upper at the axle, we are looking to reduce our anti squat and get the instant center down below the anti-squat line.
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