That is always my concern with the stock 10mm, especially if older, worn, stressed, etc. I feel like it's being pushed to the limit to torque it down..also large tires are way, way heavier than stock, transmit more inertia from a bump, and a larger bolt and higher torque value make sense in my mind.
I have driven stock TJ's with lots of miles that drove great, and the front end was obviously holding up great when dry tested .
I've driven wheeled TJs with large tires and less mileage that were sloppy.
I'm convinced scaling the 1/4 ton components, thoroughly, as you are able, is beneficial short and long term.