Interesting. I think that their device must be measuring the clamping force of the bolt and nut, which is a good measure of how much the bolt is being strained or stretched length-wise. Makes sense that if the friction is reduced, the same amount of torque applied on the bolt would yield a higher clamping force.
But the torque wrench’s reading would still give an accurate measure of the torque applied to the bolt head, which is the force that would cause a head to shear off. What do you think?
If that’s what’s going on, then the danger of accidentally over-torquing due to anti-seize isn’t as much a threat to the shear-strength of the bolt shank as it is a risk of clapping down too hard on whatever the bolt is holding in place. Maybe?