Planned (short term):
OMETJHKS (OME 2" Lift)
JKS 2001 (quick disconnects)
RM81020 (1” BL)
CE-9900 (Currie Antirock)
32x11.5xR15 KM2 Mud-Terrain
T/MTM5-5866 (15x8 wheel)
JKS OGS126 (Front trackbar)
JKS OGS151B (Rear trackbar)
1-2" Extended Bumpstop (any brand recommendations?)
BMB Pads and Rotors
Considering:
SYE (Brand recommendations?)
Planned (long term):
Winch
Headlight Upgrades
Regear 4.56
Roof-rack
Lighting for roof rack or in general providing more lighting around vehicle.
Trailer
Nice looking list. Tire size looks reasonable although they will stick out more. I know
@bobthetj03 mentioned his 33x10.50, which I think is a great size on the TJ in regards to tucking under the flares and being reasonable in size and weight. I will admit to a bit of size envy looking at my 31x10.50 next to his and
@lowranger 33's

33's will inevitably need a gear swap, something that will add a good amount to your budget.
Looks like you have passed on the AR. The AR is pretty bitchin, I just could not justify the price for my use. The track bars may or may not be needed. My BDS 2" coils did push the front end over about 3/4". Not major but I will replace the TB in time with an adjustable. The rear is maybe 1/2" which I will fix with a bracket, if I do it at all. I run JKS disconnects, they work great, easy off and back on.
Headlights should be a priority; the stockers suck ass. Either LED or a H4 conversion will be a major improvement.
A SYE is a great mod but you will also need rear adjustable upper control arms, so it is a bit more involved than you may think.
The BMB brakes are reportedly the sh%t, so you should be good there.
Winch is an important mod, especially if in the back country alone. Along with the appropriate recovery gear.