Keep in mind; when we talk about lowering pressure for ride quality or for any other reason, we're only talking about a few pounds. It's very subjective and most would never notice the difference in comfort or tire wear. Think about how most people were never concerned with the difference between summer and winter air pressure until cars got TPMS.
IMO, you're overthinking it.
True, and I'm not losing sleep over it. I just want to know how to take care of my tires, not do anything stupid, and learn something along the way.
What's interesting is that I thought it was a simple rookie question, but here we are on page four of the discussion and it got a little heated along the way!