Social Media, Selfies, & The Modern Generations

I don’t think social media is going anywhere. Facebook will just keep buying out the next social media startup, much like they did with Instagram. They have enough money to do that now.

Everywhere we go, it seems that I just see more and more people using it.
 
I was just thinking that. Many people I know have gotten over it. I think the big FB scandal recently has caused a lot of people to re-think what they post, at least in the older age groups. Folks I know that used to wear out their fingers have changed their settings, changed their profile names or just quit posting altogether. My wife is on FB a lot less than she used to be and rarely posts anything now. I know more than a few people who have closed accounts altogether.
As far as the younger folks, my teen daughters are even using SM a little less than they were. They still text and video chat like crazy with their close friends, but the postings on platforms has declined dramatically. I think they've gotten a little bored with it.

I don't think it will ever go away, but I'd love to see the numbers over that last couple of years.
its actually the younger generations who have declined in facebook usage more than anybdoy else. much like disco FB will be full of older users still holding on to some part of their past and eventualy more of them will be dead than alive, its going to be a massive graveyard.
 
#Facebook lost almost $120 billion today as the company’s stock price dropped over 19%. A weak quarterly report due to recent privacy policy and censorship scandals is being blamed for the crash. This marks the single largest stock market loss to occur in one day ever in history. #AtlasNewsUpdateStocks



Facebook shareholders have drawn up a new proposal to fire Mark Zuckerberg as chairman http://a.msn.com/00/en-ca/BBL7qkJ?ocid=st
 
#Facebook lost almost $120 billion today as the company’s stock price dropped over 19%. A weak quarterly report due to recent privacy policy and censorship scandals is being blamed for the crash. This marks the single largest stock market loss to occur in one day ever in history. #AtlasNewsUpdateStocks



Facebook shareholders have drawn up a new proposal to fire Mark Zuckerberg as chairman http://a.msn.com/00/en-ca/BBL7qkJ?ocid=st

I hope more than anything that Facebook goes the way of MySpace. Sadly that will likely never happen.
 
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The value of being born in the 60s/growing up in the 70s becomes more apparent to me each passing day

My thoughts exactly.

I remember as a child my parents bringing home our first black and white TV and my Grandma pointing to it saying " that's a 1 eyed devil " lol.
Haven't seen a TV program since the Superbowl so you can imagine what my take is on Social media.....Grandma's too :)
 
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Facebook shareholders have drawn up a new proposal to fire Mark Zuckerberg as chairman http://a.msn.com/00/en-ca/BBL7qkJ?ocid=st

meh, he'll die a billionaire either way but I'm sure if this happens it'll be a nice ego dick-punch to him, it'll be deserved

Edit: I'm sorry that was inappropriate, I've gone ahead & assumed he has a dick

Haven't seen a TV program since the Superbowl so you can imagine what my take is on Social media.....Grandma's too :)

well you sure picked a whopper to go out on, being a diehard Eagles fan my entire life it's been rough, really rough, & there was no better way to net our first championship in the modern era than to beat the best QB that's ever played the game especially since it was one of his best games ever; kinda like Rocky kicking Creed's ass :D
 
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meh, he'll die a billionaire either way but I'm sure if this happens it'll be a nice ego dick-punch to him, it'll be deserved

Edit: I'm sorry that was inappropriate, I've gone ahead & assumed he has a dick



well you sure picked a whopper to go out on, being a diehard Eagles fan my entire life it's been rough, really rough, & there was no better way to net our first championship in the modern era than to beat the best QB that's ever played the game especially since it was one of his best games ever; kinda like Rocky kicking Creed's ass :D

And to see Foles pick apart a Belichick Defense....EPIC.
Yes, fantastic game.
 
Well since there doesn't seem to be an opposition, I'll contribute. I'll also be playing the devils advocate at times. You may never know when or you might be keen enough to recognize it. I wouldn't consider myself part of the most "modern" generation, (I'm 22) but I certainly interact enough with social media, the Internet, etc, to understand. On the other hand I did grow up with much less technology than what is available to today's youth. Yes, you don't have to be 40+ to understand Dial-up, calling home phones, etc. I'd consider myself and those who are closely aged somewhat of a middle ground. Somewhat.

Anyway shifting towards the idea of Social Media. I believe humans have an innate yearn for acceptance or validation of their actions. I think this is actually a proven study? Really not sure, could me speaking out of my ass, but it goes along with how a few of you mentioned that some children are seemingly deprived of their social interaction in the earlier stages of growing up. Well, as you probably already guessed Social Media can be an outlet for that. Think about it. We, as humans, now have the ability to share plans, photographs, location, meals, etc, as descriptive or vague as the user would like. Some of that stuff might seem silly to most of you. Well probably because it would be a little silly to describe the mac 'n cheese meal you ate fifteen minutes ago. People still do that though. However, think about all the absolutely great things people have shared through social media: Tutorials, inspiring quotes, awareness for uncommon illnesses. I mean, there's people around the world who can now communicate, strictly through Social Media, to those who may be depressed and on the edge of wanting to take their own life. Those few items, to me, completely make Social Media worth it.

Now, to talk about the part that seems to rustle the Jimmies of most older individuals. "Back in my day I had to [this and that]." It's always about what they had to do when they were younger. Is that hunt for likes or favorites really all that different? If we dive in and compare the want for likes versus sharing photos saved on your old 8mm, are you going to notice vast differences or slight nuances? Let's compare. You had brought over a bunch of family and friends to take a look at some slide show photos and videos from your recent vacation in Madagascar. However to your surprise only your grandfather and sister enjoyed the slideshow. Everyone else thought it was just okay and maybe even kind of bad. Well, I for sure might be in a slightly worse mood after I went through the trouble to invite everyone over and received that kind of reaction. Same way when someone younger shares a "fun and exciting" photo on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc. They had high hopes and were seemingly let down. I don't think it takes Social Media to teach someone how that feels. What about telephones? The even older generation would say that's causing issues because they don't even need to remain in person to carry on a conversation. I mean, can you even imagine the thoughts going through the minds of some folks as the Internet was unveiled. Holy cow, the ability to share things with people you haven't even met. How could that ever be a good idea? Well, here we are.

Also, I don't want to touch the topic of deception with a 10 foot pole. Social Media may, and I say may lightly, have made it easier to do so, but it in no way started deception. Angles for beauty photos, old newspaper dating ads, and just deceptive or false advertising photos have existed since the creation of the technology that allows it.

Is Social Media an issue? Does it cause social anxiety? Do the younger generations have new or worsening issues that older generations may not have had? Who knows. What I will say though is I believe a lot of the disapproval for Social Media or the 'issues' it causes is from a fundamental lack of understanding. Just like I will never understand what it was like to sit in my living room for the first time and turn on the great black and white TV. Some of you will never understand what it is like growing up with a phone in your hand that has the ability to connect to millions of others through Social Media. It seems like a trend, each generation criticizes the next one for whatever reason. Here's the thing, technology has advanced vastly over the last century, let alone the last decade. It's mostly made things easier for most people and has overall enhanced the living experiences for most people in the world. The over-consumption of Social Media is just a kink in the hose, a bump in the road, a one horse town, a setback, whatever you want to call it. I don't think this generational transition period is any different than the ones that came before. These things take time and given enough time and enough patience, all will end well.

Okay wow, that was more than I expected. I guess that's my /end rant
 
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I'm just anxiously awaiting the next episode of "Trial by Twitter". AKA, "guilty until proven innocent".
 
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Now, to talk about the part that seems to rustle the Jimmies of most older individuals. "Back in my day I had to [this and that]." It's always about what they had to do when they were younger. Is that hunt for likes or favorites really all that different?

First off your entire reply is very well written, you’re obviously an intelligent young man, thank your parents.

This portion however you’ve got backwards, it’s not what we ‘had to do’, it’s what we got to do. We got to grow up in a world of our own making, not pre-made for us 'online', one that was exciting, and hidden, we got to make mistakes & do stupid things without evidence of it broadcast to the 4 corners in a nanosecond. We got to enjoy life without the instantaneous judgment that modern technology brings us. Don’t get me wrong, much of this technology as good and you've cited many examples, but this is a cost benefit analysis here & each of us gets to decide the outcome.

What I will say though is I believe a lot of the disapproval for Social Media or the 'issues' it causes is from a fundamental lack of understanding. Just like I will never understand what it was like to sit in my living room for the first time and turn on the great black and white TV.

My son is your age & my daughter is a year younger. While I grew up without social media, I grew up a second time with it through the eyes of my children. One day, if you have kids you’ll understand what I’m about to say. We’re arrogant at the outset, we think we’re going to teach them everything. When it’s over, we realize we learned just as much from and through them. It breaks my heart that I believe my childhood was better, far better than theirs. Much of that is due to social media, computers, technology in general as these things stripped away the essence of youth, playing in the mud, tackle football & such. What I see is generations of obese kids that sit too much & move too little. Somehow I managed to buck that trend with mine & I know of other exceptions to the general rule, but sadly we've grown generations of sedentary kids & that is not a good thing.

What I’m saying is we’ve seen both sides, you’ve seen one. Give it time, I have no doubt you’ll understand.
 
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First off your entire reply is very well written, you’re obviously an intelligent young man, thank your parents.

This portion however you’ve got backwards, it’s not what we ‘had to do’, it’s what we got to do. We got to grow up in a world of our own making, not pre-made for us 'online', one that was exciting, and hidden, we got to make mistakes & do stupid things without evidence of it broadcast to the 4 corners in a nanosecond. We got to enjoy life without the instantaneous judgment that modern technology brings us. Don’t get me wrong, much of this technology as good and you've cited many examples, but this is a cost benefit analysis here & each of us gets to decide the outcome.



My son is your age & my daughter is a year younger. While I grew up without social media, I grew up a second time with it through the eyes of my children. One day, if you have kids you’ll understand what I’m about to say. We’re arrogant at the outset, we think we’re going to teach them everything. When it’s over, we realize we learned just as much from and through them. It breaks my heart that I believe my childhood was better, far better than theirs. Much of that is due to social media, computers, technology in general as these things stripped away the essence of youth, playing in the mud, tackle football & such. What I see is generations of obese kids that sit too much & move too little. Somehow I managed to buck that trend with mine & I know of other exceptions to the general rule, but sadly we've grown generations of sedentary kids & that is not a good thing.

What I’m saying is we’ve seen both sides, you’ve seen one. Give it time, I have no doubt you’ll understand.

Amen! I think it’s one of those things where once you have kids, it makes more sense what we are saying. Unless you’re so consumed with social media that you just miss out on your children’s childhood as well.
 
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This portion however you’ve got backwards, it’s not what we ‘had to do’, it’s what we got to do. We got to grow up in a world of our own making, not pre-made for us 'online', one that was exciting, and hidden, we got to make mistakes & do stupid things without evidence of it broadcast to the 4 corners in a nanosecond. We got to enjoy life without the instantaneous judgment that modern technology brings us. Don’t get me wrong, much of this technology as good and you've cited many examples, but this is a cost benefit analysis here & each of us gets to decide the outcome.

I can certainty agree with you on the 'had to' versus 'got to', and how much of your information is now found online. That part isn't going to disappear and will be something people continue to live with. Although the newer generations do also 'get to' do the things you did. I believe the issue stems from the increasing social pressures. With Social Media it's much easier to see people in a better light and think down on yourself, or to think you might be on the wrong path just because your Instagram idol is doing something different. Kids can lose confidence in themselves because of this. Though, shouldn't that be the job of a parent to instill proper critical thinking techniques to help alleviate these feelings of lesser self-worth?

My son is your age & my daughter is a year younger. While I grew up without social media, I grew up a second time with it through the eyes of my children. One day, if you have kids you’ll understand what I’m about to say. We’re arrogant at the outset, we think we’re going to teach them everything. When it’s over, we realize we learned just as much from and through them. It breaks my heart that I believe my childhood was better, far better than theirs. Much of that is due to social media, computers, technology in general as these things stripped away the essence of youth, playing in the mud, tackle football & such.

What I’m saying is we’ve seen both sides, you’ve seen one. Give it time, I have no doubt you’ll understand.

I do always hear this and through my experiences it is true a lot of the time. There are certain types of experience that do only come with age and children. You do mention that you feel your childhood was better. Have your kids grown up happy? Have they experienced mistakes of their own and learned from them? Are they proud of what their parents accomplished in raising them? Heck, I'd say as long as they are content and happy with how their childhood went, it's a wash.