Do the brakes and get her to join you. @Mike_H really nailed it, drive well and reliable. If she's into it you win, if she's not you haven't compromised on the build for no reason and you win. If she really gets into it all those things you did to the TJ will become obvious, you wont have to sell any of it to her.
I was thinking it but glad you said it. No body lift and it looks allot better than stock. I have a feeling @Irun would be up late at night thinking about how damn heavy it is.but you can get an inexpensive Barnes steel skid to clean up the look without going nuts.